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The Gift of Singleness is not a Supernatural Lack of Desire for Marriage and Sex
Somehow we get this idea that the only people meant to be single are the ones who have a special spiritual "talent" to not desire...

Madison
Nov 6, 20242 min read
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Are you displaying the gospel through your singleness?
Marriage always gets the attention as the state in which people should be an example of the gospel. It's supposed to be a picture of...

Madison
Oct 29, 20242 min read
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Date the right kind of potential.
When my husband started pursuing me, he was fresh off the mission field. He had hardly any money and no car. Some might have though me...

Madison
Oct 22, 20242 min read
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Stop Thinking of Yourself as "Single"
If by calling yourself single you mean that you are lacking, without, missing something, less than, unable to be fully happy, incomplete,...

Madison
Oct 16, 20242 min read
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Your Struggle with Contentment Won't Go Away When You Get Married
Six years ago I dated and got engaged to someone that I didn't end up marrying. At first during the fun of dating, engagement, wedding...

Madison
Oct 8, 20242 min read
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If the Wind and the Seas Obey Him, so Can My Sex Drive
Please enjoy this sermon I wrote to myself a couple years ago. :) I am not at the mercy of my hormones and drives. My stormiest emotions...

Madison
Oct 1, 20242 min read
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What to Do if Lifelong Singleness is Your Greatest Fear
Whenever my greatest fears intrude upon my mind, I try to immediately think of the martyrs. I recall to memory the stories of these...

Madison
Sep 24, 20242 min read
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How to Not Get Emotionally Attached to a Guy too Soon
Getting to know a guy you're interested in is like walking a tight rope. On the one hand, you don't want to get ahead of yourself, give...

Madison
Sep 17, 20242 min read
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Why did God let her get married, but not me?
It can be so hard to watch someone else receive the thing that you are so desperately desiring. Especially when we see the girl whose...

Madison
Sep 10, 20244 min read
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You Won't Be a Happy Single Woman Until You Get This
I'm afraid we greatly underestimate God's ability to satisfy us. We cheat ourselves out of being filled with that warm, bubbling...

Madison
Sep 3, 20243 min read
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10 Signs You've Fully Surrendered Your Desire for Marriage
You've heard it before a million times: "Surrender your desires to God!" But how do you know if you've actually surrendered? Deeper than...

Madison
Aug 27, 20242 min read
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When You're Afraid to Surrender your Dreams to God
Growing up, I had one dream: to find a godly man, fall desperately in love with him, have a fairy tale wedding, and spend the rest of my...

Madison
Jul 29, 20242 min read
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Single woman, your death is beautiful.
I once read this verse in a way I never had before: "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints." Psalm 116:15 Usually,...

Madison
Jul 19, 20242 min read
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Why won't God just take away my desire for marriage?
Many a single woman has thought to herself, "Lord, if I can't have marriage, can you please just remove the desire for it??" And while...

Madison
Jul 12, 20242 min read
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Don't Let Pain Push You Away from Jesus
Bitterness towards God begins to fester when we look at Him as the enemy instead of the Answer, when we blame Him for our suffering...

Madison
May 15, 20242 min read
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Stop Calling Singleness Your "Waiting Season"
Sister, stop calling singleness your "waiting season." It's not a season of waiting. It's a state in which there is much work to be done!...

Madison
May 10, 20242 min read
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Surrendering Your Desire for Marriage doesn't Mean Squelching Your Desire for It
Surrendering your desire for marriage doesn't mean squelching your desire for it, as if you were taking a fire hose to a flame. God...

Madison
May 2, 20241 min read
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How to Know if Your Desire for Marriage Has Become an Idol
At what point does our desire for a good thing (like marriage or children) become an idol? Idolatry is sneaky. We know in our heads that...

Madison
Apr 11, 20243 min read
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Are you looking more for a husband's arrival than for the return of Christ?
It is so easy to focus on the things of earth rather than the things of eternity. Sisters, let me point our vision upward today with...

Madison
Mar 28, 20243 min read
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When You Wish You Weren't Planted in the Garden of Singleness
There are days when I wish I wasn't planted in the garden of singleness. There are days when being planted here feels like a torturous...

Madison
Mar 21, 20242 min read
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