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How I learned to actually be satisfied in Jesus, even as I longed for dreams to come true.
Growing up I listened to a steady diet of Patch the Pirate musical audio adventures (any other Patch babies out there?!). One of the...

Madison
Apr 16, 20254 min read


How to know if you're sinning sexually - how far is too far, etc
Sometimes it’s obvious to us that we’ve messed up in the area of sexual purity. But sometimes, it seems a little more gray, and we’re not...

Madison
Apr 8, 20253 min read


If you want to be a happy single woman, you must love God more than your dreams of marriage
I was a miserable single woman for years, and one of the main reasons is because I loved my desires for marriage more than I loved my...

Madison
Apr 3, 20254 min read


Your Womanly Nature is Magical with the Right Guy, but Terrible with the Wrong Guy
Before I was forced to break off my engagement (because the red flags were finally too blatant to ignore anymore), I knew in my gut ...

Madison
Mar 19, 20253 min read


What to do when the longing for a relationship or children feels unbearable.
Sometimes the ache for a relationship feels like desperately missing someone you don't even know yet . At the end of the day, when...

Madison
Mar 12, 20254 min read


Is it okay to actively seek a relationship, or do I wait for God to bring one?
What is the balance between actively trying to find a relationship, and letting God open the doors? This question has landed in my inbox...

Madison
Mar 5, 20253 min read


25 Questions to Ask the Guy You're Interested In
Whether you're driving to your first date and need conversation questions that will show you his heart and character...or you get nervous...

Madison
Mar 1, 20252 min read


What if your gift of singleness isn't for you, but for someone else?
(written when I had the gift of singleness) We sat in Jason's Civil War era kitchen and tried to soak in the wisdom he was sharing. This...

Madison
Feb 18, 20253 min read


Marriage and Singleness are Designed to Kill You
Both singleness and marriage are designed to bring about the death of your flesh. Whether single or married, each day is an opportunity...

Madison
Jan 29, 20253 min read


When God Says "No" He Has Something Better in Mind
Often we think that if God's plan is different than our plan, it can't possibly be as good. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has had the...

Madison
Jan 14, 20252 min read


Marriage Did Not Cure My Discontentment
I knew it before, but I really know it now. Marriage is not satisfying. Only Jesus is. Marriage is proving to be what I thought it would...

Madison
Jan 7, 20253 min read


Who Will Hold Your Magnifying Glass this Christmas?
The holidays often feel like salt in a single woman's wounds. We've all gotten the comments from well-meaning family members: "Don't you...

Madison
Dec 24, 20245 min read


This Is Why You're Still Single
"Why are there so many unmarried people nowadays?" "How is she still single?! She's so pretty!!" "He's 40 and not married? Must be a...

Madison
Dec 16, 20244 min read


How to Be Content in Singleness without Giving Up Your Desire for Marriage
We've all heard the phrase a thousand times. "Just be content in the season God has you in!" But if you're anything like me, you find...

Madison
Dec 10, 20243 min read


A Letter to my Single Sisters as I Prepare to Switch Classrooms
One year ago I married my husband and entered a different "classroom." This is what I wrote shortly after I got engaged. I wanted to post...

Madison
Nov 27, 20242 min read


Don't Let Your Singleness Be a Loss to You
Both singleness and marriage are a loss to us if they do not increase our knowledge of Jesus Christ. You are planted in the soil of...

Madison
Nov 19, 20242 min read


If you desire marriage, you ought to pursue it.
" Do I just sit and wait to see if marriage will come along for me? Or is there some way I can be pursuing it, while at the same time...

Madison
Nov 12, 20244 min read


The Gift of Singleness is not a Supernatural Lack of Desire for Marriage and Sex
Somehow we get this idea that the only people meant to be single are the ones who have a special spiritual "talent" to not desire...

Madison
Nov 6, 20242 min read


Are you displaying the gospel through your singleness?
Marriage always gets the attention as the state in which people should be an example of the gospel. It's supposed to be a picture of...

Madison
Oct 29, 20242 min read


Date the right kind of potential.
When my husband started pursuing me, he was fresh off the mission field. He had hardly any money and no car. Some might have though me...

Madison
Oct 22, 20242 min read
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